This is something I've wanted to get down solely for posterity's sake. Consider this just a bit of journaling, if journal were, in fact, a verb. Each night, when it's bedtime, the three older kids each picks out a book for me to read to them. Afterwards, the light is turned out and this is how it goes:
C says
Goodnight, S, I love you
Goodnight, JP, I love you
Goodnight, Daddy, I love you
JP says
Goodnight, S, I love you
Goodnight, C, I love you
Goodnight, Daddy, I love you
S says
Goodnight, JP, I love you
Goodnight, C, I love you
Goodnight, Daddy, I love you
I say
Goodnight, S, I love you
Goodnight, JP, I love you
Goodnight, C, I love you
We all say together
Goodnight, Mommy, we love you
Goodnight, GK, we love you
Goodnight, Maduro*, we love you
This is how I end every day, and no matter how crappy my day was, this makes it better and makes it all worth it.
*Maduro is the dog